I was joking (or was I?) in a thread here that this group isn't really about the kids - it's about us.
I've done a lot in my life with a lot of uprootings, but launching my only bird out of the nest is the most unique thing I've ever done and, in several ways, it was the hardest.
It will likely be hard for you as well.
I wouldn't have been able to do it without this group's support - don't think that you have to do it alone.
Yeah, this is the best (though unofficial) source for all details Cal Poly that your kid may need, but don't be shy about coming here for you.
This group, this Flock of bird launchers, is the most positive place I've seen on the internet. It's no accident, Traci and the other admins and moderators work tirelessly to stamp out negativity (and also to keep things on topic). This group is awesome due to your input and their curation (thank you, Moderators!).
[[ hint, though, if you are starting a post specifically because you need some emotional support, give it some Cal Poly context - the Admins want to keep this on-topic (not a general free-for-all (Grown and Flown for example is good for that (though they are so big that it's far less of a Safe Space than here))). You can't really have a post that says only "I don't think I'll ever do anything as meaningful as raise a child. What do I do now?" If you are replying to a post, however, there's a lot more latitude - you see how the Flock rushes in to empathize and provide support. It's awesome. ]]
So, new launchers: Year One is a roller coaster. Your Mustang will struggle but find their footing. You will struggle; you will find your footing. And, yes, our hearts will always be more full when our child is with us; distance will always leave us wanting.
Your bird is skyrocketing; you can still fly.
You got this. We got you. 